What got you started with AFF and or swinging?

Curious about what got everyone started playing here on Meelp and/or swinging._ Tova:Why does my pooter hurt?(6 May 2019) Estefana:Why do people hate slow people so much?(6 May 2019) Estefana:So it seems I’m probably the better one out of her crowd.(6 May 2019) Estefana:And I dont mooch off people like they do.(6 May 2019) Estefana:So why do they think their [...]
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Niki:
Many people told me that this isn't going to work either as no woman wants a man who is mentally ill.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
I found one in ho chi minh city and I am planning on going there next year when I fly over with family.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
I have now resulted in getting a marriage broker in my native country to set me up with someone.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
Now my sister is getting married and it is making me feel even more depressed and worse.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
The second woman is my age and she broke off the engagement in 2016 after two years of being engaged to me.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
The first woman was too much older than me and customs and immigrations of the US wouldn't grant a green card visa to a woman who is older than her husband.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
My family for years have been trying to set me up with someone in my native country but we ran into all sorts of issues.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
Mostly because I got rejected by almost every woman that I try to ask out.
(8 May 2019)

Niki:
So I am 28 years old and I am still single to this day and haven't even dated anyone.
(8 May 2019)

Debbra:
Help relationship?
(8 May 2019)