If You Want Her, You Must Claim Her

She is the high-value woman who has captured your attention, your mind and perhaps even your heart.You know her because she is self-possessed, grounded and conscious. She is aware of her worth without_ Shonda:We’ve known each other as friends for awhile then one thing lead to another and now we’re dating.(22 November 2018) Shonda:We’re both in our [...]
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Zaida:
I freaked because of the stuff that he wasn't honest with me about, the phone text messages, and that stuff in general.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
Was the breakup my fault? Ive gone over it a million times in my mind?
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
I asked him to erase them or stop them, but he never did.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
He kept getting text messages all day and night (he has no friends or family and its not his boss or coworkers texting him). So, I asked what these messages were, and he said they were automated messages from porn girls he used to chat with.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
But there were other things I didn't understand.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
We had actually planned a date and then he freaked out (due to a PTSD attack) and went to a strip club instead of going on our date which he cancled(his normal routine before he met me). I forgave him due to his mental illness, and he started trusting me.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
You see, he lost EVERYONE....yes everyone in an earthquake years ago in a different country (which he survived through it). Since then, he hasn't attached to anyone except me.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
He was not ready for anything nor did he want anything due to his mental illness PTSD.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
First, it was me who wanted the relationship.
(23 November 2018)

Jamika:
All sorts of things went wrong from the beginning until the end.
(23 November 2018)